Though my little survey on the right didn't generate a lot of responses (only 4) the results
were unanimous, that a little glimpse at work is sexier than all the rest.
What is so powerful about the hidden that makes it so desirable?
Why do I watch at the girl across the room for a flash of thigh when she bends or moves, more than I care about the latest spread in Playboy? Why do men get excited about a "nip-slip" picture when millions of naked photos flood the Internet?
What is so powerful about a nipple that make grown men act like 12-year olds?
I was at the gym yesterday and the sexiest woman their, among many beautiful women, was a tall Asian girl who had a loose fitting sweatshirt over a very cute sports bra. It was all pretty tame, except she kept bending down to pick up her weights, adjust her shoes, etc. and every guy within 30 feet stopped and stared each time. This wasn't even to catch a nipple, it was just to see her bra!
My wife doesn't like me to come to bed naked when Sex is on the agenda. I have my special silk boxer shorts that give her the signal i'm in the mood without being so blatant. Granted, a naked guy is rarely a thing of beauty. A few of us can pull it off (no pun intended), but most of us are middle-aged, a bit out of shape, a little too hairy, and then our goofy looking penis starts doing it's thing. I get it, I understand. Cover it up until the main event.
I, however, love to have her come out of the bathroom in the nude. I love to see her body completely uncovered, ready to be kissed, suckled, stroked, worshiped, and adored. I love seeing her breasts sway as she walks towards me, how her hips rock, and how her thighs open as she crawls on top of the bed and then on top of me.
There are some nights that I will lay out my favorite bra and panties for her to wear as she gets ready. Sometimes I like the slow undressing as much as I like the end result. But I don't like the slow tease, the witholding when the blood is up and the fever is high.
At work, at the gym, the park, or the beach, the stolen glimpse, the unbuttoned blouse, the panty flash, the big nipples on a cold day, they are wonderful and sexy, the they captivate us. And we, the men, thank you, the women, for it all.