the resultswere unanimous, that a little glimpse at work is sexier than all the rest.
What is so powerful about the hidden that makes it so desirable?
Why do I watch at the girl across the room for a flash of thigh when she bends or moves, more than I care about the latest spread in Playboy? Why do men get excited about a "nip-slip" picture when millions of naked photos flood the Internet?
What is so powerful about a nipple that make grown men act like 12-year olds?
I was at the gym yesterday and the sexiest woman their, among many beautiful women, was a tall Asian girl who had a loose fitting sweatshirt over a very cute sports bra. It was all pretty tame, except she kept bending down to pick up her weights, adjust her shoes, etc. and every guy within 30 feet stopped and stared each time. This wasn't even to catch a nipple, it was just to see her bra!
My wife doesn't like me to come to bed naked when Sex is on the agenda. I have my special silk boxer shorts that give her the signal i'm in the mood without being so blatant. Granted, a naked guy is rarely a thing of beauty. A few of us can pull it off (no pun intended), but most of us are middle-aged, a bit out of shape, a little too hairy, and then our goofy looking penis starts doing it's thing. I get it, I understand. Cover it up until the main event.
I, however, love to have her come out of the bathroom in the nude. I love to see her body completely uncovered, ready to be kissed, suckled, stroked, worshiped, and adored. I love seeing her breasts sway as she walks towards me, how her hips rock, and how her thighs open as she crawls on top of the bed and then on top of me.
There are some nights that I will lay out my favorite bra and panties for her to wear as she gets ready. Sometimes I like the slow undressing as much as I like the end result. But I don't like the slow tease, the witholding when the blood is up and the fever is high.
At work, at the gym, the park, or the beach, the stolen glimpse, the unbuttoned blouse, the panty flash, the big nipples on a cold day, they are wonderful and sexy, the they captivate us. And we, the men, thank you, the women, for it all.
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I find glimpses more erotic simply because I want to imagine things. Looking at a fully naked body (male or female) that leaves nothing to imagination is like going on a treasure hunt and getting the treasure before you have started.
And I happen to like middle-aged men that's a bit out of shape, a little too hairy, and has goofy looking penis's. Maturity is sexy.
:-) Thanks for your comments and your compliments.
A friend of mine just sent me a photo of her Halloween costume last year. She dressed as a vampire slayer and had a fishnet shirt and a cute little bra underneath. It was the sexiest thing ever. One, because she played games with showing and hiding herself, and two, because she wanted me to see her dressed sexy.
Her desire for me to see her, too look at her, made it very erotic.
I think women in general is better at sexy glimpses than men. Many guys is a bit too straight forward, at least online. Women send picks like the one that your friend sent, guys send a cock pic.
:-) Your point is well taken.
Guys don't think about the tease or the seduction. We are all about now and the score and the shortest way between those two points.
To illustrate the difference, there is not male version of lingerie. We have our daily boxers and maybe, maybe one pair of silk boxers that someone bought for us for Valentine's Day 12 years ago.
Women's fashion, on the other hand, is all about the too-short skirt @ work, the sheer top under a serious jacket, a high neck sweater with no bra, or the bikini that couldn't get any smaller. Women are trained to work the flirt. Guys, can't even be trained to put the seat down.
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As for putting the seat down... It all depends on the tactic of the trainer. *grins*
But a great lulz because of the silk boxers, my beloved one has a moose on his.
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