2. Can you recall your worst sexual experience? Why was it so awful? Did you do anything at the time to try to make it better? Inspiration: http://husbandtwomindssexually.blogspot.com
There are experiences that are bad at the time, and others that are bad only in retrospect. I've made bad decisions about who to be involved with, but the sex itself was good. I've been with women who had no business being sexually active, others who were so far ahead of me that I felt like the slow kid in special ed. Sex within marriage is in a whole different category of good and bad. The worse when I was dating was with Michelle at the park. We didn't have sex, just teenage dry humping and lots of touching. I thought things were going fine, she certainly gave me that impression, but after I came she freaked out. I was her first BF to cum with her and she didn't know how to handle it. Years later my brother dated her little sister. He came home from a date and asked me if I had raped her when we were dating. It crushed me. We were young, inexperienced, I wasn't the most aware kid having been raised in a very sheltered home. It was bad at the time because of her reaction, it was worse when I realized how she remembered it.
At the worst of my marriage issues, we were getting started with sex, I knelt in front of her to kiss her thighs, but when I looked up, she was in tears. She just walked out of the room. We didn't touch each other for days afterwards.
3. Do you fuck outside the box?
We all have a laundry list of things–features, demographic characteristics, etc. that we like and/prefer in a sexual partner. Do you ever deviate from that list? Give an example.
This is a bad question for a reluctantly monogamous married guy. My on-line playmates, however, show wonderful diversity over the years, from slim to curvy, domestic, imported, highly educated, creative, and all of them exciting.
4. Do you blend BDSM in to your relationship? If yes, just in the bedroom or in other areas of your life? Explain.
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5. Does the thought of your partner/significant other having sex with another person turn you on? Would you want to watch the act? Would you like to join in?
Yes, and Yes. For years I hoped my wife was having an affair just to show that she had a strong sex drive for someone. Now MMF threesome or FMF combination is a large part of my fantasy life. I guess that's pretty typical for a guy. I'd like to know that she's hungry enough for it to invite a third, but it's more a sign of desire than the act of watching her fuck another man. Even though that would be incredibly hot as well.
Bonus: Fill in the blanks.
I like it ___smooth___ on the outside and ___tight___ in the middle.
I like it ___warm___ on the outside and ___snuggly___ in the middle.
I like it ___naked___ on the outside and ___wet___ in the middle.
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