TMI - Masturbation Survey

M is for masturbation

1. How often do you masturbate?

• Not as often as I should.  It used to be daily at a minimum, but lately, it's just been, "eh."  

2. What are you doing to celebrate Masturbation month?

• I'm celebrating by making it a daily goal again, but even that sounds like it's a chore, not a celebration.  But, as with good sex, the more you do it, the more you want it, so we'll give it a go.  My friends have certainly been willing to help.  :-)

3. Do you like to watch your partner masturbate?

a. Yes, it turns me on.

•  OH FUCK YES!!!  It really is one of my favorite parts of foreplay.  If we want to get into TMI range quickly, I love being in the 69 position while she uses her vibrator on herself.  "Up close and Personal" as they say.  Or when I'm kneeling up between her thighs, kissing her as she fingers herself, it's as close to heaven as it get.

b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.

• It is one of our sure-fire paths to orgasm for her.  Strangely enough, she doesn't masturbate on her own, but damn, I wish she would.  

c. Not really, it’s boring.

• No, wrong, incorrect.

d. No, it’s a turn off.

• What?  Are you kidding?

e. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

• I once got a GF to let me watch since she didn't want to have sex.  I was OK with her solution though and it was amazing for both of us.

4. Do you let your partner watch you masturbate?

a. Yes, it turns me on to be watched.

• See the points above, but yes, I love being watched.  In fact, I wish I was being watched right now.

b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.

• She's not as much of as watcher as I am, but it's all part of the play.
• Now, if we are talking about online friends, then it's a definite yes!

c. No, it’s embarrassing.

• I got over that a long time ago. 

d. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

5. Mutual masturbation? Yay or Nay?

• YEAH!!!!!!!!!!

6. If you had an all-expense-paid trip to San Francisco to attend Masturbate-a-thon 2012would you go and masturbate? Why or Why not?

• I'd go because I'm pretty sure one of my all time favorite bloggers will be there, but I'm not sure if I need to do it in a group setting.  If I could hand pick 4-5, then maybe.  But, if someone wants to fund the trip, I'm up for trying.

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Bonus: Are you addicted to masturbating?

I think I used to be, as a kid I did it all the time.  It made me miss the bus, be late for everything, and the amount of hot water I used in my long showers probably cost my dad a fortune on our gas bill.  But, I've never gotten fired for it, have only been caught once, and, since my mom never gave me grief over it, I never felt that guilty.  

So I'd say "Maybe yes" back then, definitely "NO" right now, but I should probably change that.

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Happy TMI Tuesday!