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OK, let's face it, if you are reading this, you like the sexy side of Blogger and you most likely watch porn.
A lot
Maybe not, but the # of people here are not looking for literary gold, deep stories, or the next War and Peace.
You are here to be entertained, to get off, to think about how you really want your sec life to be.
You come here to fantasize, and that's what porn is.
No one things that porn is a documentary, though, to be honest, most porn has a weaker storyline than an industrial training film, and it is very documentary focused, it films something happening with little commentary or context, and that's the problem.
Take THIS clip for example. It's a perfectly acceptable clip. The women are beautiful, they put a little effort into the setting and scenario, and orgasms are enjoyed by all, several times, if they are being honest, but that's not the problem. They don't talk at all.
I understand there is a time limit, apparently most men in America cum in 11 minutes, that's about the average clip length. Maybe that's how we have at lunch, maybe that's how long our kids are entertained in the other room, or maybe our wives get suspicious when the door is closed for over 12 minutes at a time. I don't know, but I'm sure there is more research behind the length of a free clip than there was research behind 6-foot distancing and make-believe paper masks.
But, I digress, my complaint isn't about clip length, I can cum in 2, 11, 20 or 30 minutes, that's not it.
I want dialogue.
I want to hear them. Porn directors need to realize that they can take their work from good (everyone cums) to great, just be having the actors talk to each other.
It is insanely sexy to hear them talk about the sex they are having, about what they want, about what feels good.
The audio is almost as important as the video. Not the screaming "Fuck me! Fuck me!" part, that's over the top and cliche, but it's the expressed desires that make it real. Let me feel like I'm invited into an erotic moment, not watching circus performers.
I want you to kiss me
Suck on my nipples
Put a finger inside me
Will you make me cum?
Can I cum for you?
Get on top of me.
Can I put your cock in my mouth?
I love the way you kiss me
I like how you play with my nipples.
Find me clit, latch on, and don't stop until I cum.
I like the way you feel inside me.
Can you add another finger?
Use your tongue on the tip, swirl it around.
Can I cum in your mouth?
Can we change positions? I don't want to cum too fast.
Maybe this is asking for too much, I don't expect great acting, but, what if the director sat down with the actors and said, "We want to hear your voice. If something feels good, say it. If you want something, ask for it, if you need your partner to do something, tell them. And if something isn't working, stay in the moment, redirect, and find something that works."
Consent is also incredibly sexy, and it doesn't have to be formalized and boring.
Anti-consent people portray consent as to people in business attire shaking hands and saying things like, "I would like to put my penis in your vagina and thrust for 90 seconds until orgasm, do you agree?"
That's not what I'm talking about.
I want to hear the give and take, the back and forth, the occasional negotiation. It's not complicated, it's just missing so often. And I don't expect porn to act as a role model for teenagers, but kids learn from porn, and it is mostly bad habits. Consent can get asked for and given in the heat of the moment.
I really want to suck your cock, I'd like that
Can I go deeper? Yes, it feels good
Will you bite my nipples, I like it a little rough, Tell me if it's too much
I want to fuck you while your partner watches. She's up for that, that's why we called you.
Come up on the bed with me, I want to see you naked. I've wanted this for a long time.
Put your finger in my ass, I like it. Can I lick it too?
I want you to fuck me. Really? YES, Where? Everywhere.
Where do you want me to cum? Inside, deep, hard.
Is this asking too much? What do you think?
I like story
This clip is a perfect example of a lost opportunity. First, what's up with the handshake at 2:45, is that the way women really shake hands? But, that's not the point.
This starts off great, we have a story, a conflict where the blonde (Anna) is jealous of her girlfriend (Vanna) spending too much time with a new "friend", Alexis. So far, so good. We establish an ongoing poly relationship between Anna and Vanna, there is tension over Alexis, and Vanna still goes off without Anna. Then Vanna brings Alexis home, trying to make peace and spark an apology 3-way.
They sit together, they flirt, they try to play nice. Sitting on the bed, Anna admits she might be open to the idea and Alexis playfully touches Anna's thigh. Vanna suggests that they try something together. The tension is rising, sex is in the mix, they are together and touching.
Anna asks (key point - consent and desire) to watch Vanna and Alexis kiss. "Let me see you guys kiss first."
THIS IS SO SEXY!!!
Vanna and Alexis kiss sensuously, Anna is watching and enjoys, it, and when the kiss ends, she says, "That wasn't too bad, I actually kind sof liked it."
Then Anna and Alexis kiss. Alexis then asks Anna to kiss Vanna. It is soooo sexy, so much tension and potential, and then, they make the cut that "ruins" it. After all this build up, this tension, relationship building, the very next second is Alexis tongue deep in Anna from behind.
ZERO transition, no escalation, no slow build,
0 to 60 in one cut and BOOM, the tension, the story, the conflict is gone.
Why can't we enjoy the build-up, the touching, the undressing, hearing Vanna encourage and support Anna in getting undressed, Vanna asking permission to go down on Alexis, honoring the primary relationship with sexy consent questions. Stay with the story!!!
Anna, do you want to help me undress Alexis?
Vanna, will you kiss Alexis's nipple while I watch?
Can I take your panties off?
Alexis, will you kiss my girlfriend? (This is powerful, put Anna in a position of importance, AND ask for sexual favors)
I want to eat you out.
Vanna, will you hold Alexis open for me?
Some of this sounds Dom/Sub-ish, but that's why power relationships are sexy, we ask permission, we gain consent, we say the sexy parts out loud. That same dynamic would make an average video sooooo much better.
That's my hope.
AND!!! I found a new pet peeve. With all of our technology, our expensive cameras, and beautiful women, why can't we hear people when they do talk. I ran through some videos the other day (OK, yesterday, sue me) and even when they did talk, you couldn't hear them!! They were talking and laughing and doing all the things I like, but you couldn't hear them! Oh the moaning and groaning was at volume 11, but the quiet moments, the little asides, the requests were all just a Bidenesque mumbles. So frustrating. (Perfect example, you can barely hear Lily in this clip. Here's another example - wonderful seduction for 3:30, then straight into strap-on dildo play! Give me some transition, please. Keep the seduction going.) Another horrible example of a sound editing failure. The whole video is about them talking, but you can barely hear anything.
AND, I'm not all complaints today. I LOVE this clip (hate the title). This is the slow burn wonderful clip that I like. It's tender, and slow, and feels like it might actually happen. and WOW, is ELLY CLUTCH hot or what?
That's it, that's my rant. I'm going to cum now. :-)
