TMI Tuesday - A chance to be 100% honest while lying through your teeth. I'll let you decide which is which.
1. Which do you enjoy more in bed, pain or pleasure?
I'm a pleasure chaser, but you can basically do anything you want to my nipples and I'll just ask for more
Not a huge fan of tickling, but if you try it right before climax, it puts me in weird head space that can be kind of nice, just don't do it so much that I pull out. :-)
3. Have you ever used feathers during sex?
Yes, and the Chicken HATED it
4. Do you like to be blindfolded during sex? Why?
YES!!! It allows the imagination to run wild, it removes distractions, it heightens awareness, and allows me to be used in a way that gives me permission to just give in to the pleasure. Tragically, my wife's not a fan.
5. Have you ever used cold or heat as part of your sex play? What provided the cold or heat?
Hot then cold running water on my junk during shower sex. Kind of like edging, but with the ups and downs of a full body experience.
6. Do you enjoy being spanked, giving spankings, or both?
A light slap, yes, "spanking", no. it seems soooo.... artificial.
7. Do you have a safeword? Have you ever used it?
We didn't call it a "safeword" back then, but my GF would let me touch her more and more intimately and then she'd just say stop. And it was a hard stop. I would literally freeze my hand, hold it still for 2-3 seconds, and then lift it off her body no matter where it was. In retrospect she was edging herself while keeping our play within some self-imposed boundaries. Hot as hell. Eventually it progressed (over 3-4 months) to where I could make her cum without stopping, but those early session were delicious torture.
